What is wrong of what i said ? Last night when i loged onto QQ and saw one of my best friends ,Sun,in the friends list . Since we havn't talk for a long time,I was very happy and said hi instantly. We started to chat randomly~~~but later things begans to change to bad said. i said to her that many friends of mine are giving birth to baby this year ,so when are you going to have a baby? she said let nature take its course. then i said yeah, you and i both lost the chance to give birth to a dragon baby(according to Chinese calendar this year is dragon year and dragon has been a symbol of auspicious and good luck since ancient China). But you got married how come you didn't seize the chance to have one ? I swear i was saying that kind of joking.i think its ok since we are good friends. but what she said later makes me realize that i was wrong. she said what do you know of it? what is the good of the dragon baby ? who can ensure that the dragon baby would have a brighter future or more successful ? All of those things are rubbish , superstitious and ridiculous!! its vulgar opinion, its not like you to sa y like that... I was reall shocked after seeing these words. i didn't know why she would be so sensitive and excited about it.thatis just normal conversations between friends. i didn't expect it would irritate her that much. whatis wrong with her or am i just asking too much about her private life? is it a pravicy for good friends?is there reason for her to get angry ? i am confused~~ She is teaching englsih in her hometown and got married late last year. we are good friends since at college. but we seldom talk since we graduated June last year ,i find a job a little far away from hometown and she went back to hometown and end up to be a teacher. therefore, there is a great distance between us. I will have to say time is really a killer. It changes everything.we just can not resist. this is really a bad feeling.