Don’t let anybody to control your life I think many many people didn’t appear realized that in retrospect than they actually were at the time. This maybe called Standers-by see more than gamesters. If you find you really like or love someone. You always think of him or her. Everytime you do everything but the only one in your mind is just one person. You always wonder what is he or she doing ? He or she have breakfast? Now,such phenomenon maybe proved a truth—someone is control your life now. This phenomenon always appear in such a relationship, you like him or her, and you don’t know if he or she has the same feeling to you. But you can’t control you mind just always think him or her. Finally when this time is becoming a past tense . you are regret what you have done in such a stupid ways. Because you really waste your time. And, I think the second situation is you do really care someone’s appraise. If people who evaluated you the best in some aspect. Even youself still guess whether you have this virtue or not. But in your heart you tell yourself you must have this good thing to prove somebody was right. In addition to, if people judged you have some foibles. Everybody don’t want others to criticism themselves. So, from the first time you know this criticism, most of us usually do our best to prove others was wrong. Many times, we really can’t be ourselves. Because the reality is cruel. We adjust ourselves in order to comply with the society. But, you even don’t care yourself. Is there anybody cares you? Life being what it was, these people we’d probably never see them again. So just be yourself, care the people deserve you to care. Don’t let anybody to control your life, especially the person you really don’t like.