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Japan flagSho Minamiyama
What can it be defined as friends? What can it be defined as friends? I usually celebrate my friend's birthday, such as giving something to make him/her surprised, having a party, and then at least leaving a message on him/her cellphone or fb. It's kinda my pleasure, I mean I'm just glad I can make him/her happy, so especially I don't hope to get any return on my birthday. However, seriously almost nobody whose birthday I celebrated don't give me any response. FYI, they don't leave me even a message. So, I spend my birthday alone at a pub. That's so silly. How can I get close friends?

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Aww that's sad! You need to get rid of those selfish friends and start looking for sweet,caring ones. Sometimes sweet people are around us but because we are too busy pleasing the selfish ones,we didn't notice them. So yea learn to identify the real friends. Happy birthday! I hope this year you get some real amazing friends. :)
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it's the sad truth among people nowadays. but please, do yourself a favor. rather than spending time on people who don't seem to care, why don't you give more love to yourself? throw yourself a party and invite your family and some friends. you don't need to spend it alone, really. overshowering others with affection won't do you any good. not to mention, exhausting. yes, friendship is two-way. pay more attention to those who really give a rat's ass about you. if you could find one or two, then that's good enough and stick to them. cheer up, happy birthday!
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from my personal experiences, it's very hard to get close friends. even if today they take u as close friends, and someday, they will change and never tell u why. i think friendship is both sides care about each other. if u find, someone u care about, but never care about u, u can forget it. dont worth ur time.
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Happy birthday, it might be late but I wish u a happy birthday for all those birthdays you spent alone :)))

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