Never Miss?
Being a human, we are born to make a mistake. Some of us are just careless or lousy or even incapable to do certain things. Then, we began to learn from the surroundings such as observing how other people do better than us and start questioning how to be better than them. Sometimes, they are often very nice towards us, putting their attention to how we settle things and give negative feedback. As I said, this is negative which is bad. Actually, this does not literally bad if we think further.
As an example, considering how much time they spend to monitor us and see how we do, this is already a prize from them. They also take their time to express comments about us and make sure that we do not get hurt by their personal opinion or argument. In other way, they can also yell at us for what we have done incorrectly. So, how do we response against this? It is then depends on us, by doing introspection.
Introspection is like seeing at the mirror to make our physical appearance look nice which most of us do before leaving our house or even our room. Instead of physical appearance, introspection is for our mindset. It is to correct how we behave towards negative comments and turn them to positive. In many cases, we start by admitting that we make a mistake and accepting their negative comments are intended for our goodness. By thinking this way, we are able to correct about ourselves and turn into a better person, but again we might still miss something in the future and the people will find what we have been missing out.
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I used to hate receiving negative comments just like you, I was being sensitive and it discourages me to do more by myself. But then I start to think what their intentions are, if they really want to correct me, I thank for it but if they just envy of what I have achieved, I just ignore it. In any case, why should we waste time for something that is not true?
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I am afraid of receiving other's negtive comment on me because I am so sensitive that will directly affect my good mood. But I am willing to introspection.
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