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So, I just found out I am pregnant with my boyfriends baby. He is a Hindu boy with no job, but goes to school full time. Of course, he still lives at home with his parents and they pay for everything. His parents do not know about us, so he wants me to get an abortion. This is something I have never ever believed in, or even thought I would consider it. The whole problem is, he has not once asked me how I felt. He says he loves me and always will, but if he does, then how come he isn't asking me what I want? I will do it for him, because I love him that much, but we both know I have no future with him. If I do have a future with him, it definitely would not involve his family. Any advice?
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Thanks everyone. You have no idea how much it means to me to hear others opinions. Especially, if they are coming from Indian ethnicity. I do want to keep the baby, and you guys just proved that if he did love me, he would support me in my decision. Now, I just do not know how to go about telling him.
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humm--you didn't tell us that why he want your abortion,just bcz he is doing nothing ? or just bcz he fears from his parents,or he dont want to be father of your child ?
if he is doing this just bcz he is doing nothing then you should make him understand that you really want to have that baby and he shouldnt be worry about that how you both will feed the baby..but if he has a fear of his parents then he is of that person who cant take his decison by himself(but before making love to you did he get permission of his parents.rubbish) then he wont be a good partner for you,and if he dont want to be father of your child and is with you just bcz spending some good time--then you know what should you do.depends on your own choice
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if he really loves you, he can face his family, he was just having fun my opinion, you can't have a life with someone who can't be responsible for his actions, and if u ask me, if this guy doesn't want his son, you have right in that baby, have birth and don't care about such person, if he doesn't want to take his responsibility of ur child, raise your child and live for him
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Please get an assurance from him that he wont ditch you just because his parents wont like you when they come to know about the two of you:) And if he cannot give you the assurance just let him go.It seems that the two of you are very young since you said he still goes to school. Do take medical advice and try talking to your parents about this whole issue.
Wish you all the best. Take good care of yourself. God bless you !
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just a simple comment.
in my opinion..
the boy really doesn't love you anymore.or need you any more.
how can he said to do abortion..
it's really impossible.no humanity.!
if he really love you need you,he will take care of you and also the baby.and also your life.
think back about your feeling.
i wanna ask you.what the heck is still loving him with all the things happened?
take care about your baby and yourself.
sorry again with the crude advice. ):
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