Loss from Our Choice China is and still will be develping rapidly . And that is a good place for ambitious guys to build their careers with many many opportunities, a good place for money, for titles, for rising shiningly....... In China, we can support parents, siblings in troubles with ease to help them live better life. But with moving out of China, we are not so able to help in an much more expensive place... I love better to be close to nature, to wild lives, to have an enjoyable life, to have a relaxed attitude to child's education, and most important, I need enough happy family time, which is not so possible with a super busy and tired husband... News came that some people in the former office got promoted recently, which made my husband more or less lost or moody. I felt little bit guilty for the situation, because it was me who urged for our fleeing . There is always some loss when we have to choose....No matter what, I must accept it.