How can love defeat time difference and distance? 有多少爱情，跑得赢时差，打得败距离？(3) - 20110202 你是不是隐隐在害怕，怕他遇到别人，怕他见异思迁。 你是不是也怕自已遇到一个无微不至关心你的人，给了你他当初也给过的温暖。 你是不是怕，突然有一天，你习惯了身边有别人。 Are you worrying that he may come across some other girl and change about love? Are you even worrying that someone may break into your life and love you as more as he did? Are you worrying that you will get used to the one who takes good care of you with love? 他能在你生病的时候第一时间赶到，而不像他只能在电话里说宝贝你要照顾好自己。 他能随时陪你去你想去的地方看一次日出，而不是像他只能说亲爱的你要等我回来我陪你去。 他可以几乎天天牵着你的手走遍大街小巷，而不是像他那样，和他牵一次手都是奢求。 不是因为他比他更好。只是因为他比他更近。 你怕不怕？ The new one can be with you when you are ill, while he can only tell you to take care on the phone. The new one can enjoy sunrise with you whenever you want, but he will also comfort you with “Sweetie, I will go with you when I am there.” The new one and you can walk hand in hand nearly every day, but you can seldom hold his hands. Are you calm enough? 之前有过一篇文章说，如果你要嫁给一个人，和他先谈一场异地恋。 我记得我看到过的最扯淡的一个辩题，是异地恋能不能天长地久。 我想，可以。是的，虽然我知道，这一切很难。 As I have read: if you want to marry him, you can start from long-distance relationship. The most nonsense discussion I have ever heard about is: can long-distance relationship be permanent? My answer is： Yes! Although I am aware of how tough it is! 然而想来不过是等待。付出青春付出感情，等待可以相聚的那一天。 然而想来不过是学会坚强和勇敢，在这条路上走得更慢一些，更小心一些。 Long-distance relationship means waiting in brief. We sacrifice our youth and emotions, and we hope for the reunion moments only. We can just be courageous, so that we can wait longer and love patiently. 爱情可以跑得赢时差，打得败距离。只要你坚持，只要我坚持。 如果有一天，我告诉你，我不等你了，那你一定要记得，回来带我走。 Love can defeat either time difference or distance, as long as both of us persist in love. If one day, I told you I am tired of waiting for you alone, please, just come back and take me away. Love without you is nothing to me. That's all for this long translation. (Note on Feb. 03: It took me 2 hours to translate the Chinese article into English last night, I was touched by the original article, I hope the English version is still worthy reading, lol. ) Have a nice weekend, dear friends.