A huge gamble

So far this year I have heard  that several classmates will get married soon. I feel shocked  as to why they  want to get married so early and  so suddenly? One of them told me that when you find a job and become settled after graduation, you will unconsciously think about  marriage.  Honestly speaking, I still cannot understand. You know, all their life will be centered around their spouse or family. Take the example of my friend, ever since she fell in love with a guy,  I think that she  has totally forgotten  us- her friends.

As reported in the press, Chengdu has the highest divorce rate in China. And it remains on an upward trend, especially amongst young couples. Maybe today is a wedding day and tomorrow is a divorce day. The process is simple – just go to  the Civil Affairs Bureau with  a Household Register and spend several yuan. It’s cheap. Maybe true love is in short supply at present. People nowadays are more realistic than before. Some marriages are all about cars, houses and money.

People always say that a  woman’s fate depends on their husband. I have no idea but I know that marriage is a huge gamble. I should work hard for myself from now on.

A huge gamble

So far this year I have heard several classmates will get married soon. I feel shocked; why they get married so early and suddenly? One of them told me that when you find a job, being and are settled after graduation, you will unconsciously think about the marriage. Ummm honestly speaking, I still cannot understand. You know, all their life the remainder of their lives will be centered around their spouse or family. Taking the an example of from my friend: ever since she was in love with a guy, she totally forgot her friends - us, I think. :(

As reported, Chengdu has the highest divorce rate in China. And It remains on an upward trend, especially among young couples. Maybe today is a wedding day and tomorrow is a divorce day. The process is simple – just go to a civil affairs bureau with a Household Register and spend several yuan. It’s cheap. Maybe true love is in short supply at present. People nowadays are more realistic (realistic meaning what specifically?) than before. Some marriages are all about cars, houses and money.

People have always said that a woman’s fate depends on their husband. I have no idea. But However, I know that marriage is a huge gamble. I should work hard for myself from now on. :)

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Interesting insight.