I have read your words but you have to look at the other side as well - If you don't want to get very much, then don't give very much. A relationship is about honesty and a lot about giving. The more you give the more you get. The less you give of yourself the more the other person wonders why they are with you. So the choice is yours - don't expect, don't give, and don't have a successful relationship, or jump in feet first, give yourself fully, and hope for the best - if it doesn't work do it all over again knowing that when you find your soul partner you will have an equal relationship based on honesty and giving.

thanks for the comments,....:)

Yes. If people do not expect too much, people do not get hurt. But if people do not expect too much, people do not get much. If people expect too much, people will get much sometimes.Because people cannot get things they do not wish to get. If people do not expect too much , their life is limited in the small world.

When we want to change people that don't want be changed, we will only get in trouble. We can change ourself if, we really wish. You are right sarang_hikarut. IF YOU DONT WANT TO GET HURT,DONT EXPECT TOO MUCH. So... don't try to change me :)))))