Be a Bad Guy

Am I a person that is difficult to get along with? I am totally confused. Recently, I really have had some difficulties dealing with one of my roommates. I always take it for granted that I should be a person that everyone wants to make friends with, instead of a person  gets involved in the unnecessary arguments with my mate. However, to my surprise, I am not be such a person. I have no idea about the reason ,and maybe I should think back to some of my behaviors sometimes and learn from it. Oh, maybe I should be the person who say's sorry first, and you know there must be someone who is the first to apologise. To be honest, I don't mind being a bad guy in this case,and as far as I am concerned this is the best approach to cope with such a problem. Maybe I am right, what do you think?

I think it is nice to apologise for the sake of the relationship. :D