@Therapist - Why should she have to make "improvements"? Just because one man's feelings are stronger towards another woman does not mean that Catalina has to make "improvements". If someone loves another it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, it just means that this person has made a stronger connection with someone else, you certainly do not have to "improve" yourself.

Think @Catalina. There are about five billions(?) inhabitants in the planet Earth. Why should you insist in making friend with just the one who, perhaps only in the moment, is interested in someone else and you says doesn't like you? When someone doesn't like me, it is her/his problem, not mine :). There are always many others around, waiting for. Self-esteem :)!

It is easy for someone to tell you to "just forget it" or "accept it" no matter how you try he wlll be in your mind for a while. The worst thing you can do right now is to keep after him, he will see you as an annoyance and if he fail to get accepted by his love interest, he will blame you for it. As much as it hurt, you have no choice but leave him alone for a while, you have to make some changes about yourself, some improvement. Like your hair style, taking some courses, or like you are doing right now, learning new languages. Don't fantasize about anything, just be prepare for the best and the worst. Check on him after 4 or 5 weeks, if the opportunity come by, you will be ready, if it doesn't you will be ready to move on. No matter what happen you have to feel good about yourself. KC

Yes. He love her and not me... he will not talk to me no more becauze he no want me he only want her :(