Not Very Feminist Not until yesterday did I truly understand why he became awkward when the moment the nurse said it was a girl.Watching him playing with his baby girl in their car,the man with high education and kinda weathy looked like a stranger to me,I mean he was tender.He is my uncle, the one encouraged me during his visit to my college, and now he appeared to be a slave to his dear daughter.No matter she was throwing his glasses away or she just beat him, my uncle never got angry.I could tell he was uncomfortable but the next thing happened made me felt even more uncomfortable.While struggling with my little cousin for the glasses, he started making comments showing his unique views on stocks,schools,how to raise a child...Actually it was his habit to make comments on everything and gradually it became a skill for him to communicate with people.However this time the words seemed ironic to himself."Ah,girls,fighting fat,being graceful,and staying thin and graceful are the only things they need."While storking the naughty kid he blurted out intentially pretending to be casual.This man is bringing his sweetie up carefully but looking down on women at the same time.With his wife who is my mum's closest sister following, mum and I kept silent. The spirit of my mother's upbringing towards me was always being independent.Though according to 19 years life experience it failed, I am still way too far from what mum had expected,I try to stick to it. So what a funny thing education would be if girls can only live on beauty and things related to beauty.What if you have to support yourself or sometimes your family?I'm not feminist but I either can not take his words as casual saying.Criticizing women while holding his as precious gift from god?I really don't get him. The moment he knew he got a daughter rather than a son as his wife had predicted proudly and ridiculously before,he was totally disappointed but now we got his girl everybody's center.Besides it's a torture when his kid was a disaster, you have to love her as her parents crazily do.All this made me sick and felt like a nightmare.It's absolutely the result of the worship of authority and I guess his fate of having a daughter just hasn't taught him enough.