Don’t Hesitate to Say “No” When it comes to when someone asks us for help, under what condition we should say no, views vary from person to person. From my personal perspective, I consider that when he/she ask too many or unreasonable, we should say no decidedly. But someone who could don’t like to say no or is so kind always hesitate under that condition. They seem fear that saying no will harm the guys who ask help for him or make him like the person who is indifferent. In fact, if we don’t say no decidedly under that condition, we would be harmed rather than those guys who don’t know what is reasonable request. We don’t have the responsibility to help the rest. we do that because we are kindness. There a chinese old saying that when you are rich, you could help other, when you are poor, you only need to take care yourself.