Topic at drinking party I had a drinking party with my coworkers. One of them gets married in next February. We celebrated his wedding announcement. We are married men with child other than him. So we talked about child-raring at the party. One of them complained that because he takes care of his child on his days off, he does not have for himself. He understands that his wife takes care of their child week days so that he has to do that instead of her on his days off at least. That is why he does not say that directly to his wife and we received his complaint.