Should perfectionist define me? Most of my classmates and friends in my age have borne fruits , maybe not often be the best, they have one child or they have already been made a stationary partner. They are eager to show up their lives by wechat. Gradually, I have been stopped to contact them. As I remembered, when I was a little girl who just graduated from colleague. These relatives, including my mother were enthusiastic to push me into trying to find a partner. In their views, the girls need to get marry soon before twenty five years old. Yeah, that is so ridiculous! I always quarrel with my mom for this matter because this is selfish to get marry without responsibility. So many friends give me a evaluation that I am perfectionist person. They can accept to get marry with a person even they don’t love them , just been loved by others. But for me, I still want to find love , finding a true love is an end of itself.