Why being shy isn't good for you and your future? (A message for all of you)
I personally think that being shy isn't a good characteristic for a person. Why? Simply, because I have made the experience of being shy and I can tell that my life was very difficult at that time. It all started in the kindergarten when I was 4 years old. I remember how I barely talked to anyone or played with other childrens. Most of the time I went to the kindergarten, grabbed color pencils and a sheet of paper and painted a house next to a tree, a sun middle in the blue sky, and a couple standing in front of that house illustrating that they owns that house. This I did almost every day in the kindergarten, it became like a fixed routine for me. You can compare my kindergarten days like a industrial mass production in which I knew everyday that I'm going to kindergarten to produce/ paint EXACTLY this same picture without any little change in it. After 3 years when I left kindergarten and entered to primary school my teacher of kindergarten gave me all pictures which I painted in the three years of kindergarten. The reason why I kept the pictures although they were the same was because I knew in young ages already that throwing sth. away in rubbish can is bad. I did not liked my painting but I could not threw them away. When I got my pictures from the kindergarten back, there were almost over 100 paintings in my hands. So, what you can learn from my personal experience is that don't be shy especially in young ages. I have wasted three years of being shy, certainly the three years helped me that I'm nowadays good in art. But, honestly, if I would have talked to other children in my kindergarten-time, it would have been for me nowadays much easier to start a conversation. I am not saying that I am still shy, no, because after primary school I asked these questions to myself: why are you not talking to others? are they gonna bite you? So, from this day on I became self-confident and I WANT YOU TO BE IT ALSO! BE SELF-CONFIDENT for YOU and your FUTURE!!! :-)
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Why being shy isn't good for you and your future? (A message for all of you)
I personally think that being shy isn't a good characteristic for a person. Why? Simply, because I had the experience of being shy and I can tell that my life was very difficult at that time. It all started in the kindergarten when I was 4 years old. I remember how I barely talked to anyone or played with other children. Most of the time I went to the kindergarten, grabbed color pencils and a sheet of paper and painted a house next to a tree, a sun in the middle of the blue sky, and a couple standing in front of that house illustrating that they own that house. This I did almost every day in the kindergarten, it became like a fixed routine for me. You can compare my kindergarten days to an industrial mass production in which I every day knew that I was going to the kindergarten to produce/ paint EXACTLY this same picture without any little change in it. After 3 years, when I left kindergarten and entered to primary school, my kindergarten teacher gave me all the pictures which I've painted in the three years of kindergarten. The reason why I kept the pictures although they were the same was because I knew in young ages already that throwing sth. away in a rubbish can is bad. I did not like my paintings but I could not threw them away. When I got my pictures from the kindergarten back, there were almost over a 100 paintings in my hands. So, what you can learn from my personal experience is not to be shy especially in young ages. I have wasted three years of being shy, certainly the three years helped for I'm nowadays good in art. But, honestly, if I talked to other children in my kindergarten-time, it would be much easier to start conversations for me nowadays. I am not saying that I am still shy, no, because after the primary school I asked these questions to myself: why are you not talking to others? are they gonna bite you? So, from this day on I became self-confident and I WANT YOU TO BE such AS WELL! BE SELF-CONFIDENT for YOU and your FUTURE!!! :-)Want to progress faster?
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