the secret of life is... "The secret of life is not having everything you want, but love everything you have. Value what you have, give value to people who really like you. Give more emphasis on the happy things, minimize the sadness. "Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional". Do not grieve for what has not happened, the problem may not be as great as we think. And if it is large, has the humility to admit they need help. Vent, listen to what others have to say to you, ask for a hug. We lost a lot of time worrying about things that often exist only in our mind. Do not give much importance to such trivial things. Brig least less discuss, avoid stress. Everything, everything is temporary, nothing will remain forever. Do not try to understand people and what they do, just accept them the way they are. Nobody is perfect. Understand that just like you, others also have defects and errors are liabilities."