Cacinamos? No gracias :) Since i was a child i had to do all as possible to show i was really bad cooking, it is not question that i hate cook, i rarely enjoy cooking, i like doing some desserts, always it does not means a hard work, but this is a secret in my life i am not a big fan of cooking but i can do it for fun, the point is that being good cooking is a tradition for women on my family, and that means cook everyday, cook for birthdays, cook on fest days, cook in familiar reunion, buying food is not an option, the point and the proud is cook by your own. When my sister celebrated her wedding, she contract a buffet services and my mom reacted very dissapointed becouse she was planning organise the menú. But what happened to me in a occasion i visited my father side family, was really dramatic. My elder uncle died, and i went to his funeral with my dad, was in the morning when we got to there, the funeral was in a very nice room in the local church of the town, there was some few relatives, i went up to my cousin to help her, she looked very tired, so i sent her to get some sleep, i said her I would take care of making lunch, she was thanksfull, and told me some friends will come to cook too. I said on my mind that it was unnecesary becouse there were no more of 5 people but anyway i got into the kitchen, when i was pretending prepare some few ingredientes suddenly appeared three women with two sacks of potatoes, a sack of rice, another of onions, while they were telling a guy to bring the cow, i just thought I really put my foot in it!, soon i discovered that the whole town were going to comming later, aproximately 150 people or more, becouse my uncle was a beloved old neighobour there. My dad was laughing on my face, he knows how i hate cook, he said me familiar traditions are familiar traditions, and came to my side to work on onions. Soon joined us other relatives, friends and the work was less and less. My whole life i hated the idea of doing something as cook for too much people, i never accepted that tradition as just question of women, but what i noticed is that it means a space of reunion, and it does not mean that men do nothing, they toke part in other jobs of the event, well i understood the importance of respect spaces and custom, and the great value that family give to the same members organizing the details of an important celebration or meeting, finally we organised a great lunch for the entire town. Ni yo misma me lo creí.