difficulties

i found realized that I have lots of difficulties in my life, such as with work,family,love......but i need to take the bull by the horns.i feel keenly that my ability falls short of my wishes.sometimes i want to be  alone , because i and need a calm environment , but i also feeling alone in my heart.  contradict each other Is this contradictory ????

Don't worry, such feelings are normal. You feel lonely because you haven't met the right person. Just try to spend more time with friends :)