Some problems I met and am meeting with (我遇见过的和正在遇到的问题) ... Problem 1: Should we avoid using terms of endearment when we are communicating with persons who are usually serious? (I think I should because I think once I made a person uncomfortable by using it though I must use terms of endearment at that moment because of that I was just trying to translate what he wrote.) 问题一：与通常很严肃的人打交道时我们应该避免使用亲密用语吗？ （我认为我应该，因为某次，虽然是出于翻译某人写的东西的缘故我不得不使用亲密用语，但是我觉得那个人对此感到不舒服。） Problem 2: Is it corret that "You can get a peaceful mind if you do not care what others do"? (I think on some very special occasions if you do not care anything then you are just being indifferent but not being peaceful.) 问题二：“不理会别人做什么，你就可以有一个平和的心态。”这种想法对吗？ （在某些很特殊的场合下如果什么都不在意那么实际上你只是冷漠而已。） Problem 3: Is talking about books, or talking about the daily, weekly... plans, etc. an annoying thing to some persons? (My personal ideas but I feel that I would like to share these kinds of things if there are persons who welcome these topics.) 问题三：谈论书籍，或者讨论每日、每周……计划，等等，这类话题对某些人来说很烦人吗？ （我个人想法：我愿意和欢迎这类话题的人谈论这类事。） Problem 4: Can you suggest me some good topics which I can talk with others? (For example -- What are the most popular games now?) 问题四：可以推荐一些和他人交谈的好话题吗？ （例如——现在最红的游戏是什么？）