That Is Your Business. You have a hard task,you can work it out by yourself or ask somebody for help，if others couldn’t help you for some reason or no reason,you should say thanks.But there are a guy not like that,she ask for help,but nobody answer.Then,she start complaining and blame us for we donot helping her.In china,my motherland,there are an idiom:"To help you just for friendship，but donot to help you is conform to reason." Because in the world,nobody have duty to help you,except your parents.On the other hand,the task is your business,that will prove you are incompetent if you cannot finish it and to blame others instead of work hard.