A child or two children My husband's sister is pregnant, it will be her second kid. I am happy for her. meanwhile, I feel stressed. My mother in law said directly:" you should have another baby, it is good for you." Since the two children policy is implemented, my mother in law always has been saying such words, she usually nags it is her last wish to have a grandson. Sometime, I am very angry, I struggle not to yell at her. Frankly speaking, I love children, I also want another kid, but I don't think I have prepared to welcome a new life. I have no confidence to afford two children.