Live in the present. After marriage, a person's time is less. I need to think about two persons' thing most time. I almost forget that what can I do by myself. Can I wacth a film by myself? Can I eat a hamburger by myself? Can I go shopping by myself? I was sitting on the bus, look at the people on the road. I try to remember what I did when I was single. Oh, yes, I can eat the junk food by myself. I can walk by myself. I can do some maditation. Also I can entertain foolish ideas. Sometimes people need alone, at the time, we can listen our mind. We can know if we’re happy or sad. This life whether is what we want. I feel calm, in the calm, I feel better, I feel I can live in present, to be happy.