How To Be Confident? " You need confidence , Huan , you are a great person , why you don't believe that , you always deny yourself at the begining . You never believe that you can make it , that's not the matter of ability , but the loss of confidence. " My close friend told me that recently. In fact , i think the essence of unconfident is that i can't find my value of existence. i feel confused about my future , sometimes it seems that i know what do i really want , and what should i pursue. But i feel lost more often . i don't know what i am working for, just like a dead body walking through the street and the block . So how to be confident? that's definitely a problem for me . if i know , i have been confident already! so do you have any good suggestions , please tell me ! I'd appreciate that !