mature and happiness As we know, there is a strange phenomenon.we feel more and more unhappiness.the pressure comes from all things is becoming larger and the worst thing is that we do not know how to deal with it sometimes. It is maybe a ability which we are lack of. More problems will appear as we growing.we should learn the ability. happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them.A mature man is able to deal with anything. he is calm when he face to the problem.Of course , we can not have the ability in one day. the road will very long until we have it. my friend told me we can learn from the problem which we faced and experienced, and deal with the same problem next time. The growing maybe a painful thing, but it teach us what is the mature and prefect better to face our future. The best day is not today but tomorrow.