Find your love

I has just watched a short video about finding another love instead of unforgettable memories. It inspires me to share my feelings about the author’s view. The link is below:
https://vimeo.com/106773731

This video encourages someone whose heart has been broken by to refusing from her boyfriend [I don't understand what this phrase means]. The meaningful story implies that life is short, don’t be so sad and let find your own. Look around and open your heart to find out true love which sometimes is in front of you but you didn’t recognize it.

Love likes is like a beautiful and fragile flower. When a flower dies, it will leaves a seed which will grow in a plant and blossom another beautiful flower. This is a new, romantic and logical view for me. I often hear when a door is shut, another door will open. In my opinion, these doors don’t show a persuasively causal principle compared to the flower - seed relationship. The author looks at broken love by with thankful views. Therefore, poor memories turn into a wonderful experience for finding pleasant ones.

Please correct my writing. Thank you very much.