How to get over heartbreak The most heart wrenching moment in one's life is to see your love becoming someone else's life partner. Humans are inclined to love. Sometimes in your life you meet someone who tickles your heart, you develop new hopes from that person and life and it makes the happiest phase of your life but while you plan your life with the person whom you love, circumstances may present obstacles. To get over your love is the most painful phase and only the person who is passing through this situation can feel the intensity of pain. Something similar happened to me, I recently considered someone for marriage, but things didn't work and we both had to move apart. The guy got married to someone else and that was like a scar on my chest to see my love getting close to someone else. I went through trauma, took anti-depression pills, went through many sleepless nights, prayed alot to GOD ALMIGHTY to turn everything in my favor. Months passed and i began to realize the fact that nothing can happen now, everything has changed and I have to take myself out of this pain. Irealized that happiness is an inside job. People can add to your happiness but they can never be the reason of your happiness. I admitted the fact that no one can take away my sorrows until I get up and make me changed.I decided to forget him. Forgetting was a very hard thing for me, even today I am unable to forget him. I remember each and every moment of my past. I cant forget those memories but now i have accepted the fact that that everything was distended and I was helpless, besides so many efforts I couldn't get him so that must be good in my favor . It's been five months I'm out of contact with him. I still feel the pain of being rejected but I know I'm not alone almost everyone is going this heart break. Though i learned many lessons and the biggest thing is I have developed faith in Allah and that is the biggest achievement of my life.