No Best Choice Ever (2) Each of us possess the power to create reasons.When you think about it, it's nuts to believe that the external reasons given to you dictated that you had most reason to pursue the life what others think is good. Instead, you faced alternatives by yourself, and you made reasons for yourself to choose exactly what you want and who you to be. So when we face hard choices, we shouldn't beat our head against a wall trying to figure out which alternative is better. There is no best alternative. Both breaking up a gourd or making a float on it are good choices, the result is on ourselves. You might decide to be a poor teacher with a happy family, and I might decide to be a rich entrepreneur with a busy life. What we do in hard choices is very much up to each of us. The reasons that govern our choices as correct or incorrect sometimes run out, and it is here, in the space of choice-making, that we have the power to create reasons for ourselves to become the distinctive people that we are.