Part 8: Explanatory Essay(Don't make my words a reason to flame... it's is only my opinion.Thanks!) In conclusion, there are many ways to develop ourselves but to reach even a simple step, there is an opportunity cost to pay; a benefit of longer prosperity, security, homogeneity with the society and comfort from the nest is to lose to start not just a mind development but also a physical one. Not being able to develop ourselves in one of those categories doesn’t mean that we are bad or good; nothing is simple and it’s human to believe in shades of grey before we come to clarity. A nest-seeker is a primitive aspect of a person that needs enough empathy and experience to be a good follower. A follower is the undecided part of one’s self shredded between two different and distinct groups, the bubble versus the knowledge. A follower lacks self critical thinking and long-term motivation to become an organizer. It’s fairly enough to say that arriving to the step door of the organizer is an illumination for one and one’s around them, but an organizer can’t impose his/her ideas to others without understanding the population’s requirements first, and for this reason, an organizer needs to master skill his/her communication and his/her listening and never breaks through the shattering of his/her own nest before becoming a true leader. My meeting with the real estate agent was a wake-up call to myself and a threatening hammer to the cozy bubble I live in. I don’t think I’m prepared for changes in the near future, but at least now I know I have a lot of things to set up for the day I’ll have to emancipate myself from my fake happy life.