Language acquisition in a natural way We all speak our native languages fluently, how did we do that? simply through a natural process. you've spent the first couple years of your life listening, after that you started to speak slowly, step by step you finally reached the flouncy at the age of 4 mostly. so .. you want to learn a second language you should follow the same process, get rid of the text books, get rid of the grammar rules, get rid of the traditional school and start to learn by yourself.