Failure or Experience

Most woman's novel have a part, when the heroine  promises to  start life from the beginning . And many people practise this way  of  life. I think it is psychological trap. When we try to start our life from  a new beginning we want to forget our mistakes, failures, betrayal, lies with which we are faced , after which we were defeated. Only a few of us start  to analyse the reasons  why those things happened. We don't want to  understand this because it is painful, and unpleasant to remember it, to relive it in our memory. If we do not find out the reason we are doomed to relive those mistakes again, and then a new life is no different from the old one. We stand on the spot. Let's try to suffer, to break the circle and step into the future, taking no mistakes with us,only experience.

Agreed,we can learn from our mistakes and not make them again,if we try!