How can they know what is your like I always think about what is your own life..maybe about chinese ,that is not important.Im a chinese,and i also love China.But sometims the social envirement drive me cant breath.Lots of people hard work and make money all of life ,they are very rich ,but they dont know how to enjoy their life,do anything just for children or care about other people"s talking. Marriage is a intersting talking...why men and women need marriage?Yes,the answer is too easy,cause LOVE.But really love already less and less nowaday..In my city if people want to find a hansband or wife ,first one ,they think about that do they have house,car or shop.and then think about what is he (or she )"s job.finally they think about the people is kind or not ..they never care about have love or not .That is terrible thing i think .....Do love really important for marriage? Now,im feel a little bit Confused.