Yu's Philosophy: Adversity

Adversity is not a thing which should be admired or respected.

We see some people grow in, learn from and succeed in adversity, because they have no choice but to face it. People have to be strong, because once they are weak, they will be knocked down and even lose the strength to fight back. Growth and success is merely the unexpected byproducts, which people will gain naturally during the process of trying to survive against adversity.

If I have a choice, I will never choose adversity. Because it's not the adversity itself but the way I live that will make me strong and mature. If I can make progress an easier way, I have no reason to make my path to growth rocky and hard fought. Destiny has already been set before people uncover it, luckily, destiny does not lead to the only one option. People have time to find and strive for the best one among those options, but some of them don't realize it and waste too much time when they are young, when they still have many options.
Never choose adversity, but once it comes, face it and conquer it.

Realize = American spelling

Realise = British spelling