Self confidence secret

It's really a big challenge to have self confidence. Some people understand it wrong and that can make them sometimes cocky sometimes. From my point of view self confidence is mainly connected (linked) to self satisfaction. That means you thank God all the time for all you have and look to those who haven't got what you have. It also means that you must be sure about having all the tools to do what you want. Also don't be naive and look to at what people don't have when you look at what they do [what they do or what they do have?]. Gather your abilities and get into this challenge (start challenging yourself) because there's no escape from facing it.