Thinking of my life after graduate university I'm going to graduate high-school next year . i already know what college and major i will study in but after university life i have to take my family business from parents . I feel unhappy , think it's stressful job , it's not myself , i want to design my life by myself I accept that today i'm happy , can do what i want , got everything i want , it's from my family business but if let me say selfishly - : i'm a girl who still want to have a boyfriend and have a family same as normal girl . " but " that's just the second way if i had a chance to do the first way i choose is staying with my parents and my elder sister (means forever single/be a spinster) . I don't want to leave them feel alone , when i think about how do they spent a life without me , how do they feel when i didn't get back home , how much do they alone when every meal don't have me with ( // i'm getting crying ;-; ) And if i do i might hate myself so much . (Thailand cultivate children have to gratitude to their parents because they do hard working for us , and aliment us as well ) So it make me feel frustrated and no one can give me the answer even though myself . I'm 16 years old , will be 17 years old on this may It's seems too old thinking for a teenage i know . there's some people ever told me " why do you have to think far like that you're just 16 years old still left a lot of time for thinking , take it easy and enjoy your university life " I don't care them because i'm feel better with planing , I'm buddhist and i've learned good quotes for life it's " nothing forever" . Just need some outside opinions , how do you think or whatever Thank you for visiting .