random thoughts Was sitting one night and cant sleep when I remembered something… I was once asked  if I could still trust a person who’ve done me wrong… I answered back and asked her ‘’is this person close to me or just some acquaintance?’’… She asked me again ‘’does it matter?’’ And I told her yes it does matter… Trust is something you give without reservations so you should give it to someone who you think deserves it the most. Then she asked me what if the one you think deserves it the mos tbetray you, would you still trust them without reservations? I paused for a bit and then told her that before I could tell someone had betrayed me I need to ask and weigh everything first… I need to know the reason behind the ‘’betrayal’’and I need to be objective and level headed while listening then if its something reasonable then I can let it go… … Push the incident at the farthest corner of my mind and forget it…       Trusting someone especially those who  you love is really hard… it’s a cliché but true ‘’you cant always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you trust’’. And its always a good feeling to come home to someone whom  you can trust coz you’re comfortable to be with them…You can always be yourself…You know you can trust them to understand your quirks and accept you for who you are and for who you are not… Its normal to   have doubts coz it’s a human nature but as long as you trust a person 100% those doubts that you have will just fade like bubbles you wont even know it exist… And if someone you love betrays you or you felt like you were lied to and betrayed just keep in mind and remember to listen before you judge and even though it hurts like hell and you feel like you cant breath, take long deep  breaths to give some oxygen to the brain…Listen to whatever they have to say and if its something that you can understand let it go…FORGET and FORGIVE…      ALWAYS CHOOSE TO BE WITH THE PERSON WHO TRUST YOU AND WHOM YOU TRUST COZ ITS ALWAYS GONNA BE A GREAT FEELING WHEN YOURE COMING HOME TO THAT ONE PERSON WHOM YOU CAN TRUST AND WHO TRUST YOU IN RETURN…