Am I positive？ Do you think you are positive? Someone asked me this question. Am I positive? I think the answer is yes. But he said no. He told me that in his opinion,I'm not positive. I felt upset because he said I was not as positive as he was. Then he asked me:"Have you ever compared with your classmates in your college? Do you think you have a better life than them?" I don't know how to answer his question because I never think about comparing with others. I just want to compare with myself, and work harder. Then I got a reply as"you are not positive at all and don't work hard.Comparing with others,you will have a motivation to work harder." I don't know how to continue the topic,then I said OK and did a self-criticism and analysed my disadvantages. Finally, the topic ended.