To be ourselves better Now,people like to criticize others' errors and behaviors.but,they don't know they also do the same things like those people who they criticized.As the Chinese saying goes:己所不欲，勿施于人。I very like it，which from 孔子。the meaning of this saying：never impose on others what you would not to choose for yourself.it's very useful for everyone.Having another saying from 孔子:三省吾身.examine self three times a day.i hope I can do it.