Marriage in china1 I was living and working in shanghai for several years, so i am kinda open minded, and never think about marriage, i thought i am still young and no need that rush to get marry. But after i move back to my hometown, HOLY CRAP, i become an old girl in people's eyes,everytime when i walk out with my mom, they wod ask how old i am? if i get marry or no,? when my mom reply:"not yet." they would continue:" oh, how can be such a beautiful girl no BF, though she looks much more younger then her age, but should be rush,or no more good men available." the only thing i can do is smile without anywords,but i wod abuse in my heart: "such a cat". Fortnately my parents are not that traditional,they just worry sometimes but not talk everyday as my colleague's family. my colleague is one year younger then me, but her mom arranges blind date for her everyday,and push her get marry as soon as possible, that is crazy~~Because of that she moved out of her family house and live outside alone, Acturally she has BF but their family dislike and donot accept him,bec. they think that guy does not have good future. that is so funny for me.