The 44 Kiss Series: 7-10 / 44 PART 2 (With Video!) … a kiss because you are … 9) Emotionally Dependent only on Allah اللّه The less one has invested in someone emotionally, the less their emotions & behavior will affect one emotionally. One may only trust in Allah’s perfection and only be emotionally dependent on Allah. Humans are fallible, insensitive and such. We should never allow others to operate us like a T.V.—only hand Allah your E.D. remote. Never give prompt opinion. A person who’s emotionally independent detaches themselves from giving opinions. They must consider the information seeing both perspectives. Emotion has taught mankind to reason. 10) Forever, Innocently Individual In other humans, attraction that’s physical is simply the eye detecting reproductive geometric lines. This is why humans are not attracted to other geometric lines 9a tree, lamp, rock…) because human geometric lines reproduce humans, perpetuate the species. To fall in love (with a human) is to worship a deity. To fall in love with a human is to create a religion to a deity, for worshipping them and loving them over Allah. Human passions may be described with Nietzsche’s quote: “The good displeases us when we have not yet grown-up to it” . Love: that self-love twice. If two persons love each other, their outlook in the highest things of life must be the same. Love is greater than beauty , because beauty is created from love, that is what love loves in itself. All Real Love should lead to Allah’s Selfless Love. “When we look at love, we see only Allah’s Love” –Book of God’s Love –M.R. BAWA Muhaiyaddeen Surrender your heart to Allah. If the pond of the heart is full, then all creations can come and partake of it’s clear water. If it is shallow, then all those who come will stir up the mud and have nothing but dirty water to drink. Our coming to truly understand the full dimensions of our humanity is fulfilling Allah’s Loving Purpose. We must attain Allah’s (or relative of Allah’s) qualities, conduct, benevolence, words, actions, duties – we must develop all this within us in the same way Allah does. This is what we must earn and return to Allah. Allah Has Done everything for us since birth. He created us, protected us, taught us, and Allah has always given us Love and Nourishment. Allah has asked mankind to accept development, to find freedom and to raise the flag of unity on the tree of Love. We should reflect upon each and all in a state of Love. Our Love should be fragrant.