How to make ourselves get better and better

Sometimes I will think about the questions like that, such as whether studying hard can make me get better? or just make me more competitive? But if i don't feel happy about that. Why do we have to keep studying? I know it's all about our future, so study is an important thing, but what about life experiences?? If I don't want to study, I can go outside and get some part-time jobs, and this way I can also learn a lot. I don't want to just study all day and not know what they are talking about in books.
What I want to say is that you should just do what you want to do, because only doing so you will do your best in it, and you will get better and better.

Great job. I agree with you. After I finished high-school I could not afford to go to the university of my choice. I tried to go to a small college, but quit because it was not what I wanted to study. I got a job and worked for 3 years. Now I am studying at a different university, but I love it. I have a hard time sometimes, but I know that I want it very much, so I keep studying. So I think that you are right. People who don't want to study should not be ridiculed. You should follow your intuition and if you are sure you are not ready for something or just don't want it, then it's not meant to happen right now. But once you know it's what you want, then you'll work that much harded to achieve it. The only problem is if you are still in high-school or lower, because it is extremely difficult to live without a completed secondary education. It's better to force yourself then. :(