About the love and the respect The relationship between man and woman is so complicated and tangled. Who is soul? who is leader? Who is followed in the life for someone? Who is wisdom in the family? My father didn't tell me about it but it is my strong opinion: "If you are man you must achive respect in this life. The most important for male is the respect. After it follow love. Not another way. God's respect. respect to myself my native's respect You will not male if they love you but not respect"