Thank you for saing so nice things and I try to be over of it :)

you are right...you cannot become friends if you don't talk, but first is first...attraction, and I don't necessarily mean sexual, just something that makes you feel like you want to be with this person more often. Guys in general are reactionary, "I think she is cute, let me see if she will go out with me.", but they don't think it through what happens after that...it happens, it's happened to me too, you go out and, sorry, no chemistry...none. Then the average guy is thinking....what do I do now?? I can't call her...what do I say? You need to keep trying...don't give up...and maybe be a little more picky about who you say yes to about going out...sure, he could be cute, but good looks don't get you very far if he has no brain.

Thanks for good recommendations, those ideas made me think differently now. But one question comes up on my mind - How people then be friends when they does not talk? Like I have met two guys and we have gone out and now is silence. They do not start talking and so I. It is sad situation.

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Ok, I have to ask...have you found someone new to talk to??? Ihor is right, things don't always work out, so you need to keep trying. And I also agree with sumac2uk, friends don't always match...but you can still talk...but sometimes it's nice to just not be alone, a movie is better with someone (without talking :)), a drive across the country is too (but you may not constantly talk), plus guys in general are usually terrible talkers...I know that I don't always like to talk either...just when inspiration hits me....keep at it...