Being threatened or being inspired,your choice! Everyone has pain.Some people look happy just because they don't put their negtive emotions right on the surface.When the trouble comes,they figure out the solution and deal with it.That's what grown-ups do. I got a so-called promotion three months ago.It's like I was riding a tiger and couldn't get off it.I was frustrated.It seemed like that quitting was the only right way to get me out of the misery.I didn't do it.Not because I had thought it though,just because I had sent out my resume to four companies and didn't get a callback.It sucks.I know.But three months later,things got much better.Now I'm thankful for not getting any callback.Yes,I do.The reason I feel this way is I've been fighting for myself to survive this dilemma,meanwhile I found out I has changed the environment.It's like I was holding the fort all by myself with no reinforcement on their way to save me,then I found out my potential energy is really impressive. So there's no reason to be negtive.Only you can take you down.You could be threatened,instead,be inspired.That's your choice.