You may not take marriage as one of your options . Marriage is designed by human beings , obviously , it is not so perfect and apparently full of flaws to be mended . Nonetheless , since you have decided to choose marriage , you had better follow the game rule , otherwise , your will lose your life and family . The best thing left in your marriage might be your family , your children rather than your partner . 

Marriage

In marriage, we create a situation where we promise ourselves not to keep options open. We close doors and announce to others that we have closed doors!