A thorough idealism must be a true realism I used to have many dreams and imagination about life, future and love. However, when i have to live by myself, i find that life does't play as i had dreaming at all, even harder and hurt sometimes. I am confused for the real life, and cried for many times. During a long time, i felt i am lost and can't find my direction just like walking it heavy fog. I lost all my dreams, further more, i didn't know what do i hope to do and what i can do. This kind of mood makes me blue. Until now, in fact, i don't know my direction exactly. This feels ridiculous. Life polish my dreams and turns me to be a common one. But this is life which is not mysterious but actual. Many conflicts and difficulty existed may kill peoples' courage and spirits. However, i have to say that, this also is wonder of life. Maybe, life will beat you down. But if you overcome the difficulty and the fear of life, you will find that life is so amazing and beautiful. It will show its multiple colours. So when you accept that life is realistic not idealistic and put down the unreasonable imagination, you will feel full and real in your heart. This feel could be like a parable that you stand on the land stably not fly in sky. In this situation, we could pursue our dreams steadily. So if you are a thorough idealistic person, you should be realistic first.