How to mke a good imperssion Research shows me make up our mminds about people through unspoken communication within seven sconds of meeting them.Consciously or uncomsciously ,we show our true feelings with our eyes ,face ,bodies and attitudes ,causing a chain of reactions from to fear . Think about some of your most uncomforgettable meetings :an introduction to you future spouse ,a job interview ,an encounter with a stranger . focus on the first seven seconds . What did you feel and tink ? How did you << read >> the other person ? How did you think he read you ? Others will want to be with you and help you if you use your good qualities.They include : physical appearance ,energy ,rate of spich ,pitch and tone of voice ,gestures ,expression through the eyes ,and the ability to hold the interest of others .Others from an impression about you based on these. Be yourself .Many how-to books advice to you stride into a room and impress others with your qualities .They instruc you to greet them with << power handshakes >> and tell you to fix your eyes on the other person .If you follow all this advice ,you will drive everone crazy--including yourself.