The ‘If’ Word

When you have just happen to experience a downfall in your action, usually you woulds“you say If only I’ve done that instead of this,” or “If there was some way I could turn back time, maybe things will would be much better,”. With these sentences being spoken off, it seems like you don’t appreciate the way things are and the effects of it. It happens because of your own action and on your own free will without anybody forcing you to do so. So why do you feel regret about it?

Everything in life happens for a reason. For instance, you have done an examination and the results of it got you into a university other than the university of your choice. Then here and there a ranting voice could can be heard. “If only I’ve had tried my best in the exam, I would be studying under the roof of my dream university by now.” It would be a ridiculous thing to say for an event that had happened in the past in the present!

During that time studying under an under graduate university (as what you want it to be), you would will eventually meet new friends and gain a whole new different perspective on things as well as gaining a lot of experience along the way. Ain’t that a blessing? So what was there to be regreted about?

Have you ever thought that for a second if your life went in the direction that you’ve always wanted to be, you won’t be encountering others? Think about it and appreciate what the course of life had been drawn upon you for every step you take, lies in the action that you do.

A friend of mine had told me the significance of this word and so here I passed it down to all of you to stop regretting the past and relive the future that we can reach and grasp in our hands.