a little enlightenment Today I watched an episode of TV series and there was a sentence impressed me. there was an athlete paralyzed because of disease, but he didn't give up himself and said you shouldn't let anyone else tell you what you can and can't do, you should follow your heart and make your own decision. This made me relized that the only one can decide our fate is ourselves. No matter how diffcult situation we meet, we should believe ourselves and overcome it .