Blaming infront of colleagues. To start with a little glimpse, blaming either comes naturally from the deepest jealous of someone who hate you, or from someone hate to lose you. whatever it is , when it comes to frequent blaming everything becomes equal no Matter how much you love me or you hate me, you gonna end up with a horrible feeling towards the blamer. How could you sort it out ?. It is really a 1 million dollar question, some Facebook and Instagram vloggers claimed that being blamed is something good to change our life according to other's expectations and they forgot a famous saying ''making people satisfied is a goal that can not be achieved". Although, you pretend that you're not angry at the moment of blaming, your facial expressions will never hide your feelings toward the blamer. Secondly, I would like to highlight on something more important than blaming is how do people think during blaming? Do you think it really worths a discussion? OK, Let's make it more dramatic, Have you ever been rebuked by a manager or senior infront of your colleagues?, I think this is the best example of blaming. Everyone here will respond differently, acording to level of patiencey you have, somone will be silenced, deap inside saying "it's ok and no matter as long as I get the benifit that I was waiting for ages" , another one will say" my dignity doesn't allow this devastating farce" and the winner will say infront of his colleagues after being rebuked " Thank you very much I know that you are keen on me and wish me only all the best".